"We were asked how to report about same-sex couples who call themselves 'husband' and 'wife.' Our view is that such terms may be used in AP content if those involved have regularly used those terms ('Smith is survived by his husband, John Jones') or in quotes attributed to them. Generally AP uses couples or partners to describe people in civil unions or same-sex marriages."
-- From an Associated Press memo detailing an update to its stylebook. (SDLGN.com)