
A 20-year-old Brooklyn smoke shop employee has been sentenced to 20 years in prison for fatally stabbing gay professional dancer O’Shae Sibley at a Midwood gas station in 2023.
The three youths hurled homophobic and anti-Black slurs at the men, telling them to “Get that gay shit out of here” and mocking their appearances and effeminate mannerisms.
Prosecutors said Sibley attempted to defuse the situation, but Popov continued harassing the group. When confronted by Sibley and two of his friends, Popov pulled out a knife, pointed it at the men, and stabbed Sibley in the chest, puncturing his heart.
At trial, Popov’s defense attorney, Mark Pollard, argued that his client acted in self-defense after Sibley physically confronted him. Popov claimed that Sibley had punched him in the head, although surveillance footage did not show Sibley striking Popov and witness testimony did not support his account.
Before he was sentenced on July 16, Popov addressed the court and apologized to Sibley’s family and friends, according to New York ABC affiliate WABC.
“I apologize for this unfortunate event, I never wanted to kill anybody, never wanted this to go out like this….The decision that was made, I wish I could take back from my heart. I know there’s nothing I can say right now that can bring O’Shae back,” Popov said.
Pollard asked Brooklyn Supreme Court Justice Dena Douglas to grant Popov “Youthful Offender Status,” a designation that would prevent the conviction from becoming part of his permanent criminal record. According to News 12 Brooklyn, Pollard argued that 17-year-olds are not fully formed adults and are prone to reacting impulsively or emotionally, but that Popov had matured over the past three years and demonstrated genuine rehabilitation.
But in handing down the 20-year prison sentence, Douglas appeared more swayed by impact statements from eight of Sibley’s friends and family members, who remembered him as a loving, caring person and described how his death had devastated them and threatened their sense of safety.
“I feel like I’ve been robbed of my joy,” Malik Berry, one of Sibley’s friends, said in court.
“We spoke about my brother because he’s the one who is no longer here, it wasn’t about the defendant, yes, he got time, but his family can go visit him, they can talk to him, we can never see my brother again,” Sibley’s sister, Destiny Kelly, said.
“O’Shae Sibley was simply being himself — a Black gay man enjoying a summer evening — but his mere existence caused this defendant to curse, harass and ultimately kill him,” Brooklyn District Attorney Eric Gonzalez said in a press release.
“Everyone in Brooklyn must be allowed to live as they wish and love who they want, and my office will continue to aggressively prosecute those who harm others out of bias and hate,” Gonzalez added. “I hope today’s sentence will bring some closure to O’Shae’s many loved ones and to the entire LGBTQ+ community, which has been shaken by this tragic and deeply upsetting crime.”
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