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Straight man sues gym for not expelling clients who masturbated in steam room

Gym says it maintains a "zero-tolerance policy" for any inappropriate behavior in its facilities

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A straight man is suing a gym in Manhattan over fears that he could have become a potential victim of sexual assault after fellow gym-goers began masturbating and looking at him while in the steam room.

“I’m relaxing, I’m sitting in the corner, it’s very meditative,” the alleged victim said about the incident, which occurred at the Equinox gym on Broadway in Gramercy Park in November, reports The New York Post.

“The steam clears … And I look across from me. This gentleman, sitting pretty close, his towel is open, his legs are spread and he’s looking right at me, and the guy next to him was rubbing [the man’s] inner thigh, the man, known as G.B., told the Post. “He’s looking right at me, his towel’s off and he’s masturbating.”

G.B. began to panic when he saw a third man in the steam room, who was also staring at him and masturbating.

“I thought, ‘No escape, I’m going to be sexually assaulted,'” he said.

He reported the incident to the front desk, but nobody took any action, the man alleges in his lawsuit against the gym, which was filed in Manhattan State Supreme Court.

G.B. alleges that Equinox “had  known for as much as 10 years prior that similar wrongful acts were occurring in its steam showers,” according to his complaint.

The Post claims it obtained a recording of the gym’s manager speaking with the victim. In that recording, the manager is heard saying: “It is a problem, and it’s something that every gym in New York City, not just Equinox, has an issue with.”

But Marc Held, G.B.’s lawyer, claims the gym did not take his client’s complaint seriously, and refused to revoke the memberships of those involved in the behavior.

A spokeswoman for Equinox told the Post that the gym chain “thoroughly investigates” complaints, “and did exactly that in this case,” adding: “We maintain a zero-tolerance policy for any inappropriate behavior in our clubs.”

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